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Something in you knows what you need.
This is where you learn to hear it — and act on it.
Private, high-touch coaching through The Self-Led Path — a structured developmental journey for professional women who are ready to stop managing their life and start actually living it.
It usually starts in one area.

Maybe it's work. 


You've done everything right — the credentials, the promotions, the "good decisions" — and yet you sit in meetings wondering if this is really it. Or you wake up on Monday and feel something you can't quite name. 


Not burnout, exactly. 

More like… distance. 

From yourself. 


Or maybe it starts with relationships. Dating patterns that keep repeating. Connections that don't feel like enough. A sense that you bring your full capability to your career and have almost nothing left over for the life you actually want. 


Here's what most women don't realize until they're deep inside this work:

It's never really just one area.
The way you lose yourself at work is the same way you disappear in relationships. The part of you that works too hard, explains too much, needs the external validation — she shows up everywhere.
 
And no amount of career coaching, or dating advice, or mindset work fixes the actual problem, because the actual problem isn't your strategy.

It's that you don't yet have a reliable way back to yourself.

That's what we're building here.
THE SHIFT — WHAT THIS IS
This isn't coaching that helps you perform better.

It's a structured developmental path — built on the principles of Self-leadership and Internal Family Systems — that teaches you a repeatable internal process you'll use for the rest of your life.

Not content to consume. 
Not insights to collect. 
A process. 

One that works in sequence, builds capacity as it goes, and gets you to a place where your values are lived, your strengths expressed, and your needs actually met.

You'll move through twelve portals:
Calm → Confidence → Compassion → Connection → Clarity → Vision → Courage → Perspective

Each one prepares you for the next. 
None of them can be skipped. 
And by the time you reach the end, you won't need me to tell you what to do — because you'll have developed the internal leadership to discern it yourself.
Who This Is For
This is for you if:
• You're a professional woman who has done the external work — and you know, with some certainty, that the next thing isn't external 

• You've had therapy, read the books, maybe done some coaching — and you're ready for something that goes deeper and builds differently
 
• You're showing up capably everywhere and quietly wondering if you'll ever feel at home in your own life
 
• You're tired of figuring this out alone and ready to do it with someone who can hold the whole arc of it with you

• You're willing and able to devote about an hour a week to between-session work
This is NOT for you if:
• You're looking for a quick fix or a set of hacks 
• You're not willing to feel things that have been easier to push past 
• You want someone to tell you what to do rather than help you develop the capacity to know yourself
• You aren't willing or able to devote 2-4 hours per month to completing the outside work

THE INVESTMENT
$10,000
About 2 hours per week.
Payment plans available. We'll discuss what makes sense for you. 

This is a significant investment — and it should feel that way. Not because of what you're buying access to, but because of what you're committing to. 

You're not paying for videos and calls. You're investing in a process that changes how you relate to yourself — permanently.

That changes how you work, who you allow into your life, what you tolerate, what you choose, and what you build. There is no better return on investment than that.

About Me...
I’m Dr. Yael Dubin — a former psychiatrist and college educator turned self-leadership coach and spiritual guide. 



Over nearly fifteen years in medicine and academia, I learned that what heals us most deeply isn’t diagnosis or theory—it’s remembering our sacred core, and learning to live from it.

My journey has been both scholarly and profoundly human.  I hold an MD, two master’s degrees, and a PhD in theology.  But my true credentials were earned in the fires of lived experience — loss, adoption, divorce, and the courageous reclamation of my own luminous Self.  

These thresholds taught me that healing is neither linear nor clinical. It is relational, embodied, and divine. My Judaism, Mussar practice, and lifelong study of mysticism infuse everything I offer with compassion, discernment, and grounded presence.  

The actions we take from a regulated, luminous place shape the world we long to live in
A NOTE FROM ME
I built The Self-Led Path because I've watched incredibly capable women — women who are good at nearly everything — struggle with the one thing no one teaches: how to lead from the inside out.

Not manage. Not perform. Not optimize.

Lead — from a place that's steady, clear, and actually yours.

This work changed what was possible in my own life. And I've watched it change what's possible for the women I work with — in their careers, their relationships, in the quiet moments when they're alone with a decision and they finally know, without needing to ask anyone, what the right answer is.

That's what I want for you.

If something in you is responding to this — that response is worth following.

~Yael

Voices from the Path

My clients in their own words...

"Allowing Yael to guide you is like having the most experienced and confident and trustworthy Sherpa on your ascent of Mt. Everest... although in this case you are traversing your own internal landscape."

Lee
Psychologist & Coach

"I’ve done so much inner work over the years, but the process Yael guided me through helped everything finally click. The workbook and videos were like having a wise companion beside me — asking the exact right questions, helping me see patterns I hadn’t recognized, and inviting me to meet myself with compassion. My spark feels alive again. "

Bobbi
Coach

"I’ve worked in coaching programs before, but this was different. The process helped me find what’s truly mine — values I can’t argue with, strengths I had forgotten, and a way of seeing my inner parts as allies rather than flaws. It’s the most grounded, affirming, and liberating work I’ve ever done. "

Gail
Therapist

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Samantha
CEO / Founder

"Yael’s unique blend of psychiatry, spirituality, and deep authenticity makes her unlike anyone I’ve ever worked with. She’s generous with her time and wisdom — you always feel seen, cared for, and supported. The accessibility and personal connection are beyond anything I’ve experienced elsewhere."

Diana
Therapist

“Yael is so loving and kind and supportive. She made it easy to be vulnerable and to open up to her in the homework and to look forward to her feedback. Her feedback was always helpful and insightful in a way that I know I wouldn't have gotten there on my own. We can't see beyond ourselves sometimes and Yael is an expert at shedding light on the areas we just can't see of ourselves.”

Denee
Real Estate Agent

"I came to coaching hoping to solve a few surface problems. What I found was a deeper transformation — understanding why I do what I do, how my parts try to protect me, and how compassion changes everything. This work has expanded my self-compassion and, by extension, my compassion for others. It’s changed how I live and lead."

Chris
Grant Professional

"Eveniet quam natus et commodi minus consequuntur enim iure magnam nam fugit voluptas."

Samantha
CEO / Founder
Frequently Asked Questions
  • How do I know if this is right for me?
    The best way to know if this is right for you is to complete an application for A Year of Aligned Achievement.
  • What happens during a session?
    During the first session, you'll let me know what you are hoping to shift over the course of the year. That will become your "Big Agenda."

    Every session, we begin with "Today's Agenda," that small step that will bring you toward your Big Agenda.

    If, at the start of the session, you don't know Today's Agenda, we'll begin with some reflective exercises to identify it.

    Each session will be IFS-informed, and most of them will include deeper parts work as your system allows.
  • Do I need any experience with therapy or coaching?
    Not at all. You'll learn everything you need to know inside the independent study modules, and we'll take what you learn even deeper inside session.
  • If I am a therapist or coach, or have done a lot of growth work, do I still need to complete the modules?
    Absolutely.

    The independent study component is crucial. It is not simply "information" but also application in a novel way.

    This program has been developed over decades of facilitating change journeys, and these are the steps, in this order, that bring lasting results.
  • How often should I join sessions?
    At your initial consultation, you and I will set a standing time on both of our calendars for our private work together.

    We will typically meet the first three days of the month by Zoom.

    The fourth week of the month, you will have access to me for a full day of Zoom.
  • What if I need to speak with you between sessions?
    Should the need for additional sessions arise you and I will set aside a mutually agreed upon time to connect.

    I am available to you for quick Voxer chats Monday through Thursday between the hours of 10am-4pm EST. You may message whenever you like, but those will be my standard response times.
  • Is everything confidential?
    I coach according to ICF Code of Ethics, which means everything we discuss is confidential unless you disclose any criminal activity or intent to harm yourself. Then I must contact the appropriate authorities.
  • What is your refund policy?
    You may cancel your services within 30 days for a full refund.

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Let's talk.
This isn't a program you do once and file away. 

The process you learn here — Calm, Confidence, Compassion, Connection, Clarity, Vision, Courage — becomes the way you operate. 

Women who complete this work come back to it again and again, in new seasons, with new challenges. Not because something didn't work, but because it did — and they know exactly where to go when something new needs attention. 

If that's the kind of change you're looking for, I'd love to hear from you.
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